那些迎合领导的“语言贿赂”
<br><p></p><div><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow: hidden; text-align: center;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2em; height: 2em; border-radius: 100%;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 19.2px;"><section class="" style="margin: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.6em; height: 1.5em; border: 1px solid transparent; border-radius: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;">1</section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -1em; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: left;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: right;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; border: 1px solid rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>前几天，在银行遇到这么一幕：</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>一位中年妇女气喘吁吁的跑到柜台前，带着哭腔说：昨天在你们银行刚开通的网银，存了5万块钱，今早上上网一查，怎么只剩下50块啦！！柜台里的姑娘貌似很有经验的安慰：大姐，你先别着急，冷静冷静。一听这话，中年妇女叫道：我能不着急吗？我能冷静吗？丢钱的是我，不是你……</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>本是好心安慰对方，却没想把对方惹得更急！看到这一幕，如果你是柜台里的姑娘，你怎么说？</section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow: hidden; text-align: center;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2em; height: 2em; border-radius: 100%;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 19.2px;"><section class="" style="margin: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.6em; height: 1.5em; border: 1px solid transparent; border-radius: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;">2</section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -1em; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: left;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: right;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; border: 1px solid rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>工作中，常会遇见这样一小撮人——能力一般，但溜须拍马、奉承巴结的本事却很不一般。对于这些人，我们是“羡慕嫉妒恨”，一来不屑不愿这样去做；二来有时想做却不知如何去做。拍马是要水平的，一不小心，拍到马腿的后果是很严重的。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>首先申明，此文不是教给大家怕马屁的方法。对于拍马屁，我们是抵触的，特别是对那些没有底线、自尊、人格的拍马行为，我们严重鄙视。本文说的是，建立在平等人格基础上的，让沟通双方都感到舒适、自在、高兴的方法，与马屁无关。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>这种方法是什么呢？</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>“迎合”。</section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow: hidden; text-align: center;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2em; height: 2em; border-radius: 100%;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 19.2px;"><section class="" style="margin: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.6em; height: 1.5em; border: 1px solid transparent; border-radius: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;">3</section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -1em; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: left;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: right;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; border: 1px solid rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>什么是“迎合”？</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>回到本文最初的案例，银行柜台的姑娘如果这样来说：</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 82, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“怎么会这样呢？这不应该啊，要是真有这种事，真是不应该啊。您的身份证和昨天办的手续带了没有，我立即帮你查查，看看到底是怎么回事？”</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>这样说，效果是不是会更好些？！</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>所谓“迎合”，本质是“换位思考”，说白了就是“想对方所想、急对方所急”。沟通需要感性和理性的有机结合，且先感性后理性的顺序不能颠倒。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>常见的例子：妻子感冒了，对丈夫说：我感冒了。一般的丈夫会说：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 82, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">多喝水，吃点药；</span>而二般的丈夫会说：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">哎呀，是不是很难受，这么憔悴，让我摸摸头烫不烫。还好，赶紧躺到床上去，先休息休息，我立马倒水找药去。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>一般的丈夫用的是理性；二般的丈夫则是先感性，再理性，两种沟通方式，孰优孰劣，高下立判。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>去餐厅吃饭，孩子不小心把筷子掉在地上，你让服务员重拿一双。如果她说<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 82, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“你等一下，我马上拿”</span>或是<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我马上拿，你等一下”</span>，看似内容都一样，但大部分人往往更愿意听后一句。前一句是“先理性后感性”，后一句则是“先感性后理性”。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>“迎合”就是符合对方的心理需求，让对方在感觉上更好。</section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow: hidden; text-align: center;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2em; height: 2em; border-radius: 100%;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 19.2px;"><section class="" style="margin: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.6em; height: 1.5em; border: 1px solid transparent; border-radius: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;">4</section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -1em; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: left;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: right;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; border: 1px solid rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>常用的三种“迎合”方法。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">1、给观点找事实。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>例子：刚走进办公室，处长说：今天天气真热啊！你这样说：就是啊，今天天气预报说38度，比去年这个时候热多了。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>对方说的是“观点”，我们在“观点”后附上与之对应的事实，彼此产生感情共鸣。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">2、给事实找观点。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>例子：办公室同事向你抱怨：这个材料领导都来来回回都改了4遍了。你这样说：是啊，这个材料确实不好写。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>对方说的是“事实”，我们在“事实”后附上对应的观点，以此来印证对方的说法。</section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">3、事实和观点都有，补充自己的细节。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>例子：朋友说：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">上周我去银行还房贷，人太多了，排了近1个小时的队。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 82, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">太耽误时间了！！</span>你这样说：<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">深有同感，上次我银行卡丢了，去补办，也是取号排队，结果也等了1个多小时，</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 82, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;">确实太麻烦了。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>对方话中既有事实（红色），又有观点（蓝色），此时应该补充自己类似的感受和体会，让对方感受到你们的相同之处。</section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; overflow: hidden; text-align: center;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 2em; height: 2em; border-radius: 100%;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 19.2px;"><section class="" style="margin: auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 1.6em; height: 1.5em; border: 1px solid transparent; border-radius: 100%; line-height: 1.5em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background-color: rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;">5</section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: left;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -1em; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: left;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(249, 110, 87); width: 234.5px; float: right;"></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 670px; border: 1px solid rgb(249, 110, 87);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span>人际沟通的目的，是为了增进了解，建立关系，最终取得信任。如果彼此经历类似、看法相同、观点一致，就特别容易理解对方，进而建立关系、取得信任。所以，“迎合”不是马屁，是一种人与人之间和谐相处的沟通技巧。来源：机关说话之道</section></section></section></section></section></section></section></div> <p></p><div><br></div><div><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">任何机关都是办事机关。“办”字中间是个力，意思要下力气。力字两边还有两个点，一个点代表汗水，一个点代表泪水，意为既要付出辛劳的汗水，又要付出辛酸的泪水。所以，在机关工作，一要任劳，二要任怨，三要认命。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">2</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">做人当如篮球，谁都争，谁都抢，谁都喜欢你；而不能似排球，你打过来，我推过去，谁也不要你；更不能像足球，你踢过来，我踢过去，好不容易飞向球门了，又被守门员一拳给打了出去。具体来说，要让上级感到可靠，让下级感到可亲，让同级感到可信。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">3</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">让领导喜欢你，让众人支持你，让谋略展现你，让笔杆支撑你，让办事证明你，让舌头帮助你，让创新成就你，让习惯保佑你，让高尚伴随你。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">4</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">要做贤臣，不要做小人；要做清官，不要做贪官；要做人才，不要做奴才。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">5</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">成长进步靠真本事，不靠拉关系；成长进步靠埋头苦干，不靠投机取巧；成长进步靠组织做后盾，不靠搞人身依附。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">6</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">看点子是否符合党纪国法、政策规定，有违规嫌疑的点子坚决不出；看点子是否符合我党优良传统，影响机关形象的点子坚决不出；看点子是否符合实际，不受群众欢迎的点子坚决不出；看点子是否经济实用，华而不实、劳民伤财的点子坚决不出。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">7</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">凡早也是要办，晚也是要办的事，一定要早办；凡主动也是办，被动也是办的事，力争主动办；凡也可以去办，也可以不办的事，尽可能地办；凡冷淡也是办，热情也是办的事，要热情地办。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">8</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">把学习作为工作的一部分、生活的一部分、生命的一部分，做到工作学习化，生活学习化，休闲学习化。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">9</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">拿着同级当上级，拿着下级当同级，拿着群众当兄弟。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">10</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">机关干部之间要做到，有事没事常来往，大事小事多商量，急事难事互相帮，好事坏事共担当，喜事美事要谦让。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">11</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">管住自己的嘴，不乱吃，不乱说；管住自己的腿，不跑官要官，不去不该去的地方；管住自己的手，向上不伸手，向下不插手；管住自己的心，不低俗，不庸俗，不恶俗。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">12</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">不搞“上有政策，下有对策”的投机行为，防止亵渎政策这条“生命线”；不搞“知法违法，钻法律空子”的冒险行为，防止触摸法律这条“高压线”；不搞“无视规矩，擅闯红灯”的散漫行为，防止越过纪律这条“警戒线”。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">13</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">要警惕和防止这几种不正常关系：对领导唯唯诺诺，阿谀奉承，犹如“主仆”关系；对领导敬而远之，不敢直言相谏，好像“猫鼠”关系；认为是领导面前的“红人”，能让领导言听计从，视为“哥们”关系；把分管的业务看得很重，不愿让领导插手，成了“协作”关系；对领导的指示不执行，或者所提意见建议得不到领导批准时，发牢骚，讲怪话，颠倒了“上下”关系。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">14</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">要亲近“一老一小”，就是要亲近离退休老干部和青少年、幼儿园的小孩子；要远离“一老一小”，就是远离“老板”和“小姐”。很多人犯错误，搞腐败以至中途落马，往往是从亲近这后面的“一老一小”开始的。</section></section></section><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="2185" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-left-color: rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="" data-original-title="" title="" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; background: rgb(12, 137, 24);">15</section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;">警惕“三种人”：不太熟悉特别能套近乎的人，挣钱不多特别能花钱的人，权力不大特别能办事的人。远离这“三种人”肯定不会吃亏上当。</section></section></section></div>
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