秘书人员应该怎样握手？
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">迎来送往是秘书人员的一项经常性工作。在迎来送往的过程中，使用最为普遍的礼仪是握手。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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color:#3E3E3E">握手似乎人人都会，但事实上，并不是每个人都能做得好。有这么一个故事：我国一个企业代表团到欧洲去谈生意，谈判谈得还可以，但欧洲公司的领导人却对中方人员不满地说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">“</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">我以后再也不想见你们这位团长了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">”</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">原来，中方代表团团长几次与他握手时，眼睛都没有看着他，他觉得不被尊重，受到了伤害。其实，中方代表团团长也许并不是有意不尊重对方，只是他不懂得握手时不看着对方是一种极不礼貌的行为。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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color:#3E3E3E">由此可见，握手并不是见面拉拉手那么简单，如果不懂得握手的礼仪规范，即使你与人拉了手，也未必能达到传递感情的效果。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:red">人们在握手时，经常犯的错误大致有这么四点：</span></span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">一是</span></span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">“</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">目中无人</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">”</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">如前面讲的那个例子，就是因为中方代表团团长几次同人家握手，眼睛都不看对方，使对方感到受了伤害。所以，当别人走过来同你握手，或你走过去同别人握手时，眼睛一定要看着对方，一定要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">“</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">目中有人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">”</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">二是</span></span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">“</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">眼睛无神</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">”</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">眼睛是心灵的窗户，眼能传神。你在同别人接触时，人们能从你的眼神中看出你的心态。因此，在握手的一瞬间，你的眼神不应冷漠、无神，而应温暖、热烈。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">三是</span></span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">“</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">耳不听言</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">”</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">握着谁的手，就要听谁讲话。握着这个人的手，却在同别人说话，也会使对方感到你不重视他，甚至是瞧不起他。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">四是</span></span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">“</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">心不沉稳</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">”</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">握手时想着快一点把人打发走，这也是很忌讳的。特别是在客人较多时，如果你有这种心态，就会给人造成敷衍的感觉。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:red">握手既然是一种礼仪，就有其约定俗成的一些规范。</span></span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">要使握手准确传达礼仪的本意，就应严格按照这些规范去做。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">一</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">握手也有前奏曲。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">握手前应先打招呼、寒暄、问候。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">二</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">去饰物以示真诚。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">男子在握手前应先脱下手套，摘掉墨镜等，以表示真诚相待。但女士握手时戴纱手套被认为是可以的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">三</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">伸手讲究先后。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">面对上级、长辈，或男士面对女士时，要等对方主动伸出手才可握手；如果对方是你熟悉的朋友、同辈、下级，则应该主动伸手相握表示热情。不管你是主动方还是被动方，握手伸手时要果断，犹豫和迟疑往往会造成对方的误解。个人需要与多人握手，也应讲究先后次序。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">四</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">净手以示尊重。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">用脏手与人相握是很不礼貌的。如果手上有污物，要主动向对方说明，并在清洗干净之后再去握手。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">五</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">相握力度适中。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">握手时要把手指弯曲，达到真正的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">“</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">握</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">”</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E">。平伸手掌，轻触指尖，是一种傲慢。两手相触后，应该紧紧握住。用力握手表示见到对方很高兴。如果别人伸出手来，你却软绵绵地、有气无力地一握即放，这会给对方造成毫无热情的印象。当然，紧握也要有个限度，过分的紧握，会使对方不舒服，也是一种失礼。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">六</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">握时稍加摇动。</span></strong></span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">握手一般都会摇动几下。简短有力的摇动是信任对方同时也是自信的表现。但也要注意摇动的幅度和时间的长短，要根据对方的反应迅速地作出判断。有时，握手中用另一只手握住对方的手臂，是一种十分友好的表现，但只限于相互十分信任的人之间，与陌生人握手不宜如此。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">七</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">松手注意时机。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">握完手应及时松手。如果一方已经将手松开了，另一方仍抓住不放，会使场面尴尬。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:red">握手还有禁忌：</span></span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:red"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">
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<!----><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:
Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"></span><o:p></o:p></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(1)</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">不可轻易拒绝握手。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">拒绝握手，是对他人的羞辱。在没有特殊情况的正式场合下，这是一种严重的失礼行为。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(2)</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">不要坐着或躺着握手。</span></strong><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E">因特殊原因无法站立，应予说明。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27.1pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">(3)</span></span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:宋体;color:#E36C09">不能一只脚站在门里、一只脚站在门外握手。</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:#3E3E3E"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 27pt; line-height: 19.2pt; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;color:red">(</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:Helvetica;
color:red">文章摘自《秘书工作》杂志</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:red">2006</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;color:red">年第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:red">3</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family:Helvetica;mso-hansi-font-family:
Helvetica;color:red">期。作者：张传禄</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:red">)</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family:Helvetica;
color:#3E3E3E"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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