与人相处的几点常识

张力济南 发表于 2014-7-18 20:59:44

<span style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b> <wbr>  <wbr> 1、尽可能鼓励别人。 <wbr></b></font><span style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"></span></span><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 2、要在任何时候都让人保留脸面，不要让别人感到难堪，不要贬低别人，更不要夸大别人的错误。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 3、在别人背后只说他的好话，如果你找不到什么话好说，那最好保持沉默。</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 4、仔细观察别人，那样你就会发现他做的好事。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 5、你要经常引用别人高尚的思想和动机。每个人都希望被别人认为是宽宏而无私的。</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 6、尽可能不要批评别人，不得不批评的时候，也要采取间接方式。要始终对事而不对人。不要以书面形式批评别人。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 7、要允许别人偶尔自我感觉良好。你不要吹嘘，而要承认自己也有缺点。如果你想得到朋友，你要得饶人处且饶人。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 8、当你犯错误的时候，你要及时道歉，当你要受到指责的时候，你最好主动负荆请罪。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 9、你要多提建议，而不是发号施令。这样可以促进合作关系，避免引发矛盾。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 10、当别人发怒的时候，你要表示理解。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 11、要尽可能少说话。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 12、要让别人相信，主意来自他自己。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 13、不要打断别人的话，即使他说错话。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 14、要试着从别人的立场上分析事情。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 15、不要总是很有理，你可以比对方聪明，但不要告诉对方。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 16、常常赠送一些小礼品。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 17、在发生矛盾的时候，要保持冷静。首先要倾听对方的意见，努力寻找双方的一致之处，还要用批评的眼光看待自己，向对方保证考虑他的意见，并对他给予自己的启发表示谢意。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 18、要对别人表示真正感兴趣。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 19、保持微笑。要始终称呼对方的全名。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 20、你要学会从对方的角度来看待事情。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 21、你要想办法使自己在和每个人谈话时，包括在电话中，都让对方有好的感觉。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 22、要宽恕别人，不要记仇。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 23、当你想到对方时，要给他最好的祝愿。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 24、我们对一个人的兴趣越大，越愿意理解他，我们就会对他越宽容。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 25、努力记住对方的面貌和名字，下次见面时能一下子就认出对方，并清晰准确地喊出对方的名字。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 26、友谊是两颗心真诚相待，而不是一颗心对另一颗心的敲打。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 27、兄弟不一定是朋友，但朋友往往是兄弟。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 28、要更多去探望处在危难之中而不是正在走红的朋友。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 29、能对你开怀直言的人，便是你的挚友。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.76923179626465px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30.000001907348633px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr>  <wbr> 30、只要肯开口赞美别人，你将会最大的赢家。</b></font></div><p></p>

老猫发表于 2014-7-19 00:38:37

这不是心灵鸡汤，而是处事法则

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与人相处的几点常识