领导对下属不满，根本矛盾出在这...
<section class="" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: 20px 5px 5px; padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; border-width: 2px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(240, 84, 84); border-radius: 4px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">领导要工作，下属要生活，工作给领导带来的快感最大，生活给下属带来的快感最大，收益的来源不同，这是个根本矛盾。前几天热炒的不想提拔被处分，其实也是这个原因。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我身处机关办公室，顶头上司是办公室主任老孙。自从被他抓到办公室来打杂，转眼已经好几年了。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">老孙这人，说来也算是尽心尽力。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">可毕竟机关单位的事情越来越多，我们办公室又好几年没增加人手了，尽管我们4个人在老孙的带领下快要累到吐血，领导们却越来越不满。</strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">尤其是最近，我从很多人口中得知，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">单位老大对老孙的工作愈发不满，认为办公室在他的领导下拖拖拉拉，效率低质量差，还多次扬言要把他换掉。</strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">以上是背景交待，对于我今天要说的这件事情尤其重要。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">01</strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一把手的不满</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这天下午，办公室里的人都出去开会了，我正独自一人整理着文件，一把手（整个单位职位最高的人，正厅级干部。以下简称老大）忽然走进我办公室，冲我招招手：</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“小叶，有空吗？去我办公室坐会，聊聊？”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我心里“咯噔”一下：工作十余年，还从来没有单位老大单独找我谈过心。我何德何能跳了这么多层，直接引起了老大的注意？是工作表现过于突兀耀眼，还是捅了个天大的篓子？</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">怀着一颗忐忑的心，我跟着老大来到他的办公室里，坐在沙发上与他面对面。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他开门见山，和颜悦色地问我：“<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你觉得你们孙主任如何？</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">尽管在此之前我已经脑补了一万种可能性，可还是没想到他叫我谈心原是冲着老孙来的。在毫无准备的前提下，我犹豫着开了口：</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“还……还可以啊，我跟他在办公室好些年了，他一直都很尽职尽责。”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">老大伸出食指，对着茶几连敲三下：“没说实话。小叶，你是聪明人，知道我什么意思。”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我只好继续说：“我说真的，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孙主任工作态度绝对是100分，经常自己一个人加班到深夜，毫无怨言。</strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他对我们底下的4个人真是没得说，我工作这么些年，没碰见这么关心下属的……</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我要的就是这句话！他怎么关心你们的？说来听听！”老大突然厉声打断我的话。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">就是每次快下班时来了急件，他都催我们快走，他自己来处理。</strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">周末接到上级部门的紧急通知，他也一般自己开车到单位来处理，不到万不得已，不会找我们。</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“这就是问题！<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">再能干的将军，没有士兵的配合就不是个好将军！</strong></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他孙XX再有本事，这么大个机关，能自己撑起来？</strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">每周这么多上传下达的文件、会议通知、后勤采购，能再有三头六臂，能自己搞定？</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我这才意识到不妙，本来是想借机报答老孙平时照顾我们的恩情，没想到却好像事与愿违，反而捅了他一刀。于是在摸清老大的意图之前，我决定先保持沉默。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">老大这才打开了话匣子，收起了之前的严厉，缓缓说道：</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我对你们办公室工作的不满由来已久，包括对你。你是办公室里除了老孙以外，干得最久的年轻干部了，我观察了很久，发现每天一下班，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你们4个年轻人跑得比鬼还要快，留下来的永远是老孙一个人，在那吭哧吭哧地做事。</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“所以我今天把你叫来求证一下，你一开口，果然跟我的结论一致。我就想问问你，<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">身处办公室，事情那么多，你们4个人是完全没有加班意识的吗？</strong></span>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">事已至此，既然老大都如此直白，我也就没必要再戴虚伪面具了。我无比坦诚地再度开口：“我确实是身不由己，儿子幼儿园在读，老师三令五申必须在5点半前接走……”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">老大好像没听到我说话似的，继续说：“你们办公室另外3个人，我也侧面了解过。小刘刚来不久，没有对象，晚上经常有相亲饭局。小张家住得远，开车要走1小时环城高速。小何老婆怀孕，每天一下班就急着回家做饭……”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“可是，这些都不是不能加班的理由啊！如果因为有家务事就天天抵制加班，一下班楼里就鬼都不见一个，这单位干脆关门算了。”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“像你这种女同志，接孩子我还能理解，大不了把孩子送回家再回来加班嘛。大老爷们加加班怎么了？<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你看你们隔壁处室那俩大男人，一年至少有30天睡在办公室，抽屉里从牙膏牙刷到剃须刀什么都有。</strong>人家这才叫有担当！”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">都在机关工作，紧急文件多、上级检查多、周末会议更多，办公室首当其冲，我认为在工作来临时，家务事都该放一放，家里人也应该多理解多支持。</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我刚结婚那两年在乡里挂职，我老婆怀孕后独自住在单位宿舍，9个半月了还自己做吃的，独自一个人把我女儿带到1岁多我才回来的。谁也别哼哼，年轻时谁还不是这么过来的？”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你们孙主任最大的问题，是对你们太讲义气、太客气了，纵容你们不加班，把所有事情都揽在自己身上，所以才会自己那么累，工作成效还一团糟。</strong></span>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要想把工作做好，就得调动好下面人的积极性，该严厉的时候就得严厉，该逼加班时就要逼。</strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不然凭他自己，累到吐血也干不完！</strong>”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">最后他说：“好了，你回去吧。我会仔细跟老孙再谈一谈。你们也要做好经常加班加点的准备，别总接孩子什么的，家里这么多人，又不是只有你能接。”</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我默然，站起身来告辞。在听完一把手这席话之前，我的心里本来点亮着一盏明灯，就在走出他办公室的那一瞬间，那灯忽然熄灭了。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">02</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">下属的真实想法</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">关于加班，关于牺牲和奉献，领导和下属一向有着截然不同的概念。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">于许多领导来说，自己好不容易坐上今天的位置，工作业绩好不好，关系着自己的能力甚至下一步仕途，是人生中的头等大事，无论如何都要拼尽全力去完成，没有什么困难是不可以克服的。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而他们的家人，要么多年前就已经习惯并磨合完毕，要么无法理解无法支持，早就分道扬镳了。再要么年纪大点儿，孩子已经去念了大学或成家立业，自己精力体力还尚可，的确有着“撒手使劲干”的客观条件。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">反观我们这些下属，现在的年轻人，工作只占据了人生的一部分。</strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">20多岁时要么贪玩要么忙着找对象，30多岁时又上有老下有小，到了40多岁，孩子中考或高考，父母年纪更大，更是不敢掉以轻心。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">作为家庭的一份子，我们被每一桩家务事牵扯着心力，而<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">工作只是谋生的手段而已，确实没有太多动力去加班到深夜，更没有勇气拿着区区几千块月薪向家人开口，求理解求支持。</strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我钦佩那些为了写方案经常睡办公室的人，更心疼那些因为老公写材料加班而必须大着肚子自己照顾自己的孕妇。然而，我做不到，更不希望自己老公是个被工作捆绑的“冷血动物”。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">强调：</strong>以上观点只针对坐办公室、处理文件会议等日常琐事的普通人员。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不针对警察、消防等特殊工种，向他们以及他们的家人的奉献致以崇高敬意！</strong>）</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">以上两种截然不同的理念，折射出的是在不同的时代背景下，两代人为了适应时代发展所做出的相应调整，没有谁对谁错之分。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是身处两个世界的人，谁也别奢求对方能理解自己。</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">唯一能和平相处的办法，只能是求同存异。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而老孙这一类中层领导，是多么难得可贵的存在，作为两头受气的“三明治”，他既直面凉薄的价值观、肩负繁重的工作量，又有着体察人间冷暖的温情，一直在尽全力，给予我们这些下属力所能及的自由。</strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从今以后，于工作，我还是会在8小时内兢兢业业地完成本职工作，对得起纳税人给的工资、对得起自己的良心，必要的加班不推辞、紧急的情况不失联。尤其看在老孙的面子上，我会尽量配合他，不让他为难。</p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但是，我也同样谢谢单位老大的直白，亲口向我说出“工作至上，其余皆可抛”的扎心观念。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在我看来，那些个日常工作，只要合理安排、提前谋划，没有什么是紧迫到必须要抛家弃子的地步。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">奉献不应当是主旋律，牺牲更不应该是常态。</strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在非必要的加班前面，做个适当自私的人，该说“不”的时候就要说“不”。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">因为，我首先是一个妈妈、一个妻子、一个女儿，才是单位里的一根小草。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">本文转载自公众号：</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">公务员的小门道</strong></span></p><p></p>
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