这些细节，机关人不能忽视！
<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important;">行为细节篇：</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">咣当一声，众人侧目</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不要迟到。这是机关人的基本素养，是红线，轻易不要逾越。有的人生活中散漫惯了，上班之后也是这个作风。开会迟到，上班迟到，借口多多。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实再忙、再有事也不差那么几分钟。从做事的角度说，守时是一种端正的工作态度，不守时的人很难被领导和团队信任。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从办公室或会议室出来时不要使劲摔门。这是一件小得不能再小的事，但确实有很多干部忽视。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有时大家开着会，个别人出去打电话、上厕所，信手那么一甩，咣当一声，众人侧目。从别人的办公室离开，也应该注意轻关门，尤其是夏天的时候有过堂风，门一开风一抽，力量很大。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">事实上，人的修养更多体现在微小的细节中，体现在对周边人的谦让和照顾上。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">请示报告篇：</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">能当面汇报尽量不打电话</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有事需请示时，尽量当面汇报，不打电话。当面汇报可以有面对面的交流，方便沟通意见。此外，领导要做决策也需要时间去思考，打电话承载不了这个任务。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因私事向上级请假，尽量要提前。“请假”本身就意味着“请示、给假”两种含义：你请，别人给，程序上不能错。不要发短信简单告知，更不要先斩后奏。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如笔者就收到过“我明天要出去旅游”这样的请假短信。这不是请假，这是通知。不同意吧，人家票都买了；同意吧，有一种被绑架的感觉。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不只对过程负责，更要对结果负责。一次，第二天要开会，笔者让一名工作人员通知，可第二天人不齐，笔者问他怎么回事，他却说“反正都发了短信”。接着，他又说对方没回短信。这就意味着，在不清楚对方是否收到短信的情况下，他就不再过问事情了。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这种“你让我做，我也做了，至于结果和我没关系”的思想要注意避免。做事，做了不是目的，做到位、做到最佳才是目的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">养成反馈过程和结果的习惯。比如，有时笔者把文件转给某人落实，他领完文件后很长时间都没回消息，笔者也不知道他能不能落实，怎么落实的，有没有困难，还要去找他问。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">另外还有些事情是层层落实下来的，上级领导安排到直接下级，再安排到具体工作人员。反过来也是层层负责，上级领导会找直接下级问结果，不会找具体人员问。所以及时反馈、掌握进度是很重要的。所以紧要的工作要马上反馈，不紧要的工作在适当的时间节点进行反馈。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">处世为人篇：</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比起“滑头”，领导更喜欢真诚的人</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">工作中，犯错后要先承认，然后再讲述理由。笔者见过有些机关人，一旦被发现工作出了纰漏，总是不断地强调客观的原因。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">笔者理解他们的感受，出错了，怕给领导留下坏印象。但问题是，这样的态度恰恰是领导最反感的，觉得你这是在推诿搪塞、逃避责任。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要敢于表现真实的自己。机关人事关系复杂，有些人会有害怕露怯的心态，可能会表现得谨小慎微。但若是总试图让别人看到好的、不看到坏的，那也不好。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在别人心里，那些过分油滑，在自己面前一直戒备的人，是不足以信任的，太完美了反而假。年轻人都会犯错，只要认真、坦诚面对，错误也是进步的开始。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不拿人情来替代规则。笔者刚上班时有过这样的教训——</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“那时我从A科室调到B科室，A科室组织一个会议忙不开，找我帮忙，我想的是大家相处的不错，部门之间应该互相配合，就去了。当时B科室的领导没说什么，但后来他提醒我，说如果你是利用业余时间帮忙，没问题，但在工作时间，就应该走正规渠道，而不是你自己擅作主张。”</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">之后想来，工作时间，大家的确不能完全按照感情和喜好用事，该讲的程序和规矩得讲，该有的界限得有。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">工作方法篇：</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">正常询问被“反问”，很堵心</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">凡事不能想当然。人都有思维惯性，“我想应该是这么回事”是靠不住的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如笔者问某个同事，“你材料上写的这段，确实是出自某某领导讲话吗？”他随口说：“我觉得是。”笔者回去一查，根本就不是这么回事。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">工作中因为想当然造成的失误特别多，所以别依靠自己非常有限的经验去处理，忽视应当进行的查证和检验。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不要经常用反问句或者设问句。这些句型具有攻击性，特别容易招致反感。比如笔者问某人：“你通知某某开会了吗？”他回答道：“我通知他办公室主任了，这没什么错吧？”这个回答就特别叫人堵心。因为问起这件事，并没有责怪他的意思，他这样撇清自己，反而起了反作用。（<span style="max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">来源：廉政瞭望）</span></p><p></p>
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