在路上：职场小白手记
<p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">人好像一惯如此，只有亲身经历过某些事情，才愿真正接受那些被验证过的理论，我在基层三年的时间得出的理论是：如果你无法改变现状，也无法看清未来，只能从做好眼前的事情开始，让自已变得更轻松。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">那时我会把流水日记变成工作总结和任务清单，记下每天的人与事，有欢喜地，也有阴暗的。我每天不停的对自己说一句话：要变得更好。后来工作果然越来越轻松，哪怕旁边同事在摔计算器，我也能很好的控制脾气，慢慢的有了自己的忠实粉丝，黄楼村一位大娘年年都给我送一大包栀子花；龙田村一位伯伯每年都给我捎一些他炒的干货；中学的老师们都喜欢找我办理业务，甚至还当起了媒人……</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">一个人心里只有装着美和善，才以传达到指尖，幻化成治愈人心的句子，读一个人文章，是可以窥见执笔者些许品性的，所以，每次我次都会告诉自己，你写出这些文字，想要传达些什么？</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">或许你觉得我在说教，想拼命向别人证明些什么，而对于把别人的一切善意都当作讨好的人，也可以忽略掉我后面的3000字。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">写日记里，我有时会列清单，比如这一天看了多久的书，画了多长时间的画，当然这都随自己的兴趣来，还有一段时间，我对普话感兴趣，然后花了几个月的时间在网上学习普话，谁规定学东西一定要有那么强的目的性呢？只要你觉得能提升自己且让自己获取快乐和满足就好。同时，我会做一个纠错本，比如，今天我哪里没做好，没做好的原因，问题细化到我对每一个客户的态度，开始探寻解决问题的方法；我想就是这样的过程，让我业余时间变得丰富多彩并充满活力，也让我不断调整自己的工作状态。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; 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margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">人都会给一个让自己舒服的心理暗示，比如上了一天班，真的很累，回到家手指都动弹不得，哪有力气去学习，去培养爱好呢？然后，大脑接受你的暗示，已经太累了，不想再那么辛苦，其实这只是懒惰怂恿着你去心安理得的借口而已。只要你想一下自已因为平庸或是不公而遭遇到的窘迫和困境，你会突然想着要去改变。如果你开始讨厌那时的自己时，就试着冲破罩在身上的皮囊。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">市公司组织了青年员工创意大赛，县人力部门给我通知时，也只是为了应付差事，所以报名截止的前一天才通知我。我用上班的空余时间写完3000字的方案，在PPT丢掉两次的情况下，熬夜做完了创意。参赛那天，我看她们精心制作的PPT和天马行空的想像，知道原来每一个地方都有着默默努力的人。我把在基层遇到的问题和解决方案拿了出来，满满的诚意，当然，也得到在场所有人的认可，我获得了全市比赛的第一名，而这也是我第一次参加市里组织的比赛。回来时，我一下成了公司里的名人。随后的第一年，我从劳务派遣转为合同工，解决了身份问题，并且开始恋爱了；第二年，28岁的我和27岁的他结婚了，解决了个人问题；第三年，我被调到公司综合办公室，担任秘书。结束掉五年在那个穷山恶水的小镇与老百姓们斗智斗勇的生活。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">这样看起来，是不是很励志？我也以为自己会从此过上快乐幸福的生活。然而职场就像是升级打怪，总有一些更高难度的怪物出现，阻碍你的升级修行。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">我碰到的第一个怪就是人力资源部四十岁的中年妇女。她对我做的第一件事儿便是把嘴挂在我身上，无论在哪个岗位，你都会碰到那样的人，要通过碾压别人的自尊来提升自己的优越感。不停的吩咐我做各种事情，哪怕我手头正忙，水在她背后烧开了，也非得喊我过去，再补上一句：“水开了你要记着倒啊！”，平时背后不会教给你什么，可领导一在的时候，就来一句“你要自己看着学呀”，“谁谁调走了，作为年轻人，你要勤快些，多做些。”“你怎么来了这么久，连这都不知道？”外带一个充满讥讽的眼神……</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"> 进办公室的前两个月，我深深的意识到曾经难相处的同事们简直就是可爱的小喽啰。我可以原谅一个人的心直口快或是直性子，却无法从心里看得起一个品性卑劣的人。这存在与她与其他部室男性无下限的挑逗与将其她女同事的隐私病例肆意宣扬之中。每当她言语刺激我时，我心里都会重复着圣经里的那句话： “因为他们口中没有诚实，他们的心里满有邪恶，他们的喉咙是敞开的坟墓，他们用舌头谄媚人。”我不该和一个心中满是恶意的人计较。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">第二个怪就是马屁精。他比我后到部门，90后，在基层上了4个月的班（中途休了2个月的假），一毕业家里就给买了辆20万的车，手上戴的表也是一万多块，上个月手机又换成苹果叉。我一直承认他聪明，所以他第一时间讨好了第一怪，随后成了第一怪的开心果，当然，第一怪也传授了他不少经验，比如何偷奸耍滑之类的。按职责分工的话，每次会议的茶水、通知之类都是第二怪的职责，但在关键时刻从来见不着他人。正常上班时间是8:15,他通常8:30到，坐在电脑前10分后，他会去上45分钟的厕所，然后回来玩苹果叉，下班半个小时前开始一天的工作，打印文件。你没看错，就是字面上的意思，将OA里的文件打印出来，呈报给分管领导。而仅这一件事儿，还不停的拖沓，往往各部室需要报送的文件都会过期，大老板是个很宽容的人，已给他指出了两次，但他仍不为所动。我对他连续犯错而主任不闻不问觉得奇怪时，才知道他上面有个亲戚和主任是好友。好吧，越是小的地方，一些裙带关系就越会被表现得淋漓尽致。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">七月份，机构改革，意味着一个部室开始限制编制了。我拥有了办公室其中的一个编制，第二怪架空了，虽然在办室里，但身份却是网点营业员。我以为这次能让他吸取教训，没想到他却变本加厉的偷起懒起来。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">双怪组织的八卦程度有时会出乎我的想像，在他和第一怪在办公室公然畅聊聊无痛人流的时候，我爆发了，随后偷偷把他拉到一边“你一个未婚小男生和一个已婚妇女聊什么人流啊！领导来了都不停！”后面苦口婆心跟他讲道理，结果他反过来给我提建意，说我的情商太低，我反而被他攻克了，发现他讲得很有道理，后来才发现，给别人指出问题也是他的一大特点。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; 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padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">机构合并后，办公室新增了两位男同事，虽然是管理岗，但是会帮我做分担杂事。而第一怪也开始主动帮忙了，对我也温柔了很多，经过长时间的相处，觉得讨厌的第一怪和第二怪正在慢慢消失。虽然第二怪老说我吼他，但气氛慢慢地也在变融洽。后来想，偏见都是相互的，你讨厌别人，她一定能有所发觉，有可能你对别人的偏见，仅仅是因为别人对你不够好吧。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; 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color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">总记得大老板强调要姶我算加班费时说的那句话“不要让老实做事儿的人吃亏”，刚开始到机关的时候，下面所有的人都告诉我，这里水深，有太多的勾心斗角，你得学着圆滑世故，特别是在没有背景的前提下。那时，我也曾动摇，因为在机关，没有绝对的公平。可是后来，我无间意见看到工作以后的证书，那些授予的荣誉这也是公司对老实人的另一种肯定吧。 </font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; 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padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">当然，还是有委屈的时候，我拿着部室里是低的工资，却做过多的杂事；我常常一天忙到晚，我旁边的人从早玩到黑，整天不是玩斗地主就是看视频；为了完成任务，我得用休息时间去找客户，而别人通过网点熟人做假轻松瞒过领导；那时只能安慰自己，太容易得到的，学不会珍惜。</font></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"></span></p><p style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); font-family: Tahoma,&quot;Microsoft Yahei&quot;,&quot;Simsun&quot;; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 32px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;"><font color="#000000" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; word-wrap: break-word;">新主任从不写稿子，他认为我可以轻松完成每一份叠加任务。每次要交大材料时候总是那句“简单，照着去年的模板套一下就可以**** Hidden Message ***** 若干年后，所有的故事都风轻云淡。 来学习，看着挺有代入感，
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