我的成长感恩谁

材料小白 发表于 2017-7-23 21:18:35

6月初，我们听了XXXXX教授的课，教育我们要感恩组织、感恩人民、感恩社会。的确，从广义上来说，这是我们每一名党员干部都应该去感恩的，或者说，这是作为党员干部整个群体应该感恩的。其实感恩这个词，听起来是很抽象的，但细细去体味，感恩又应该是具体的，能够具体到值得感恩的每一件事，每一个人。今天我想结合我自己的经历，谈谈在我的成长道路上让我反思、让我进步的那些人和事。首先，要感恩的是我的父母。他们生我养我，尤其是让我养成了独立的性格，独立的思维，好的家庭教养（我个人认为）。是他们营造了良好的家庭氛围，建立了良性的亲子沟通渠道，让我感受到爱，感受到温暖。印象中在初中二年级之后，父亲感觉我有了自己的思考，就不再一味的在我身上强加他的思想。基本每周一次的思想交流，会在父亲办公室持续1个小时左右。我想是从那时起，我学会了独立、学会了担当。其次，要感恩学校和社会。他们教育我知识、教会我如何与别人相处，让我形成个人认为比较正确的三观。学生时代的我，总结就一句话，成绩偏下，早恋被抓。记得是升学考在即，早恋被班任老师发现，他不是一味的责骂、批评，而是用一种柔软的教育方式引导我，帮助我。最后不仅没有影响到我升学考，而且让我正确认识到自己的错误，在青春叛逆期没有跑偏。我想，是那一次的经历，让我明白了处理矛盾，要注意方式方法。**** Hidden Message ***** 等等…等等，我学会了很多，要感恩的也有很多很多。最后，本想感恩自己，感恩自己一直以来的努力、坚持，但转念一想，我良好的物质生活，都是父母给予的；我工作上学会的一切，是组织、是领导、是同事教我的；我努力坚持的原因也主要是有同事和朋友的鼓励。我想，如果要感恩自己，就感恩我生命中遇到的人，并且在我人生成长的道路上，留下痕迹。

老猫发表于 2017-7-24 08:22:31

心存感恩，方能行稳致远。请看故事。<div> </div><div><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从政三四十年，最让自己倍感欣慰的就是发现了一批人、培养了一批人、推荐了一批人。 <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">每每遇到素质高、人品好、能力强，想干事、能干事、会干事的“草根族”，爱才惜才之心便油然而生，总会千方百计、竭尽所能地去培养、去举荐。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们中有的从县乡调到了省直、市直部门，有的从边缘单位调到了重要单位，有的得到提拔重用，还有的被安置到关键岗位工作。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这些年，在各种不同场合，总有一些才华横溢、聪明精干的年轻人问我：“感到自己挺优秀的，一直埋头苦干、任劳任怨，为什么一到涉及提拔晋升的关键时刻，领导却不愿意为我出头露面、据理力争呢？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对于他们的质疑抱怨和踌躇彷徨，我深有感触。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">下面，我就将印象深刻的3个经典案例在这里分享，看完你也许会明白：为什么在关键时刻领导不愿意推荐提拔你。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <section class="" style="padding: 4px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 2px dashed rgba(94, 102, 117, 0); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section label="Powered by xmyeditor.com" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-tools="小蚂蚁编辑器" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); box-sizing: border-box !important;">（一）领导不推荐你，因为你不懂感恩</section><section class="" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-left: 28px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 22px; height: 22px; border-radius: 50%; border: 3px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); transform: rotate(0deg); background-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: -22px; margin-left: 28px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 22px; height: 22px; border-radius: 50%; border: 3px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); transform: rotate(0deg); background-color: rgba(25, 139, 23, 0.4);"></section><section class="" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: -13px; max-width: 100%; width: 441px; height: 4px; box-sizing: border-box !important; background: rgb(117, 117, 118);"> </section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个省直部门的小伙子，连续几天给省委部门的一位老领导打电话，想让老领导推荐他到一个更高的平台，但是都被婉言拒绝了。 <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">万万没想到，他很执着，一天直接来到了老领导的办公室。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">听他叙说后，老领导表达了三层意思：<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第一，省委这个重要部门的办公室确实需要一位副主任。你文字功底不错，又是现单位的办公室副主任，写作水平、综合素质都能胜任。我个人认为，也许你适合这个岗位。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他颔首微笑。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第二，你的消息很准确，这个部门的主管领导和办公室主任确实和我交情不错。如果我力荐，他们一定会认真考虑。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他眉开眼笑。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第三，很遗憾，我不能推荐你。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">老领导说完这句话，他立刻脸色突变、惊诧不已。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“因为，你不懂得感恩。五年前，你从县委办到我这里跟班学习。鉴于你的刻苦勤奋和能力素质，经我推荐，将你调到了省直单位。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他语气诚恳，连连称道：“是的是的，是您改变了我的命运，我感激不尽、永生难忘！”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“听说你调过去后，有人问‘你是不是我推荐来的？’你不但矢口否认，还说‘根本没人推荐，完全是靠自己努力奋斗调过来的。’有这事吗？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他一脸羞愧，支吾半天也没说出一个字。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“还有，你调到省直不久，有一次我正好有急事找你，打你手机却已停机。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我换手机号了。”他赶紧解释。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“你口口声声说我是改变你命运的人，是你永生难忘的人，可是你换了手机号都没有告诉我。更让人心寒的是，你调到省直部门三年多来，别说平时没有联系，就连逢年过节都没有一句礼节性的问候。这次，要不是需要我推荐，你可能一辈子也不会想到我吧？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他惭愧难当，低头不语。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“感恩是一种态度。不懂得感恩、不知道报恩的人，即使我帮你推荐，有朝一日人家了解到你是这样的人，也会大失所望。推荐你，我不仅要对你的能力负责，更要对你的人品负责。希望你能引以为戒，记住这个教训。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个人，只有懂得知恩，他的内心才会忘记功利浮云；<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个人，只有常怀感恩，相助他的贵人才会越来越多；<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个人，只有知道报恩，他人生的道路才能越走越宽！<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（二）领导不推荐你，因为你能力平平<section class="" style="padding: 4px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 2px dashed rgba(94, 102, 117, 0); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section label="Powered by xmyeditor.com" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-tools="小蚂蚁编辑器" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-left: 28px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 22px; height: 22px; border-radius: 50%; border: 3px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); transform: rotate(0deg); background-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: -22px; margin-left: 28px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 22px; height: 22px; border-radius: 50%; border: 3px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); transform: rotate(0deg); background-color: rgba(25, 139, 23, 0.4);"></section><section class="" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: -13px; max-width: 100%; width: 441px; height: 4px; box-sizing: border-box !important; background: rgb(117, 117, 118);"> </section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有位副厅长，他在县里工作时的老领导给他打电话说：“某某区委办有一个小伙子，为人处世不错，很有潜力，曾经在你那儿跟班学习过。现在区委办恰好空缺一个副科的位置，听说你跟区委书记关系很好，看看能否在不违反原则的前提下，帮助推荐一下。” <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">后来，那位小伙子直接给这位副厅长打了电话。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当小伙子说出工作单位、姓名以及在厅里跟班学习的时间段后，副厅长竟对这个人一点印象也没有。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">翻遍了手机、微信通讯录，也没找到关于这个人的一丝记录。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">于是，副厅长又专门询问了他跟班学习时所在处的处长、副处长、科长，以及跟班学习时间较久的同志。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们回答时都思索了好一会儿，而后才想起确实有这么一个人，但是对他都没有什么具体印象了。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个人在省里跟班学习半年多，并且时间才过去不到两年，大家对他竟然一点印象都没有，这说明了什么？<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">通过反复权衡，副厅长顿时心中有数了，便主动打电话告诉小伙子：“我不能推荐你。据我所知，你在省里跟班学习时间长达七个月，却没有给领导、同事留下任何印象，这在很大程度上反映出你的能力不足。而有一些同志，跟班学习仅三个月就干出优异成绩，时隔多年他们的名字仍令我们记忆犹新。如果我现在贸然推荐了你，那就是对区委、对你个人以及与你同台竞争同志们的不负责任。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">领导主动推荐一个人，是冒着一定风险、担着一些责任的。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所以，每在举荐的时候，这位副厅长都会缜密考察，直到自己对其高度认可并深信不疑。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不论在哪里工作，若想赢得领导的认可和信任，让领导心甘情愿地去推荐你，你就必须做到脱颖而出，不仅工作上要细致严谨、积极主动，而且做人上也要谦虚真诚、处事练达。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">只有展现出过硬的综合能力素质，才能在领导面前赢得推荐你的信任与理由！<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（三）领导不推荐你，因为你人品欠缺<section class="" style="padding: 4px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 2px dashed rgba(94, 102, 117, 0); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section label="Powered by xmyeditor.com" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section class="" data-tools="小蚂蚁编辑器" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-left: 28px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 22px; height: 22px; border-radius: 50%; border: 3px solid rgb(255, 255, 255); transform: rotate(0deg); background-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" style="margin-top: -22px; margin-left: 28px; max-width: 100%; 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line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">经过慎重考虑，副主任最后决定选择推荐B。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">A落选了，找副主任诉苦，并问选B不选他的缘由，还愤懑地强调：“论资历，我比他老；论年龄，我比他大。其他方面我俩都差不多，如果要照顾，也应该照顾我啊！您为什么最后选择他？”<p style="max-width: 100%; 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line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“好像父亲是8月、母亲是11月，具体哪天我记不清了。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第二，你多久没回家探望父母了？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“您知道的，咱们工作太忙了，一直走不开，我有将近三年没有回去过了。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第三，你父母的身体怎样？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“父亲还可以。”他一边回答一边思索，“母亲身体不太好。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第四，谁在照顾两位老人？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我两个姐姐。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“第五，去年和今年春节你在哪儿过的？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“都是和爱人、儿子在外旅游过的。一次是云南，一次是新马泰。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他看副主任一个劲儿盯着他没说话，心里有点发毛，赶紧解释：“平时‘五加二’‘白加黑’地干，连周六日都正常休息不了，根本没时间陪老婆和儿子，我欠他们太多了。好不容易赶上春节，得补偿一下。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“补偿老婆、孩子没有错，可是父母呢，不需要补偿吗？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“他们有两个姐姐在身边，根本不需要我。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“姐姐能代替你吗？是父母不需要，还是你嫌麻烦不愿陪？问你父母身体状况，你还需要思索，可见你连电话都不经常往家里打。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他还想辩解，欲说什么，又咽了回去。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我经常讲，一个男人除了把自己的身体锻炼好、把事业经营好外，还要扛起孝顺父母、疼爱老婆、教育子女的责任。你认为自己做得怎么样？”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他低头不语。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“一个人的角色，不只是单位里的厅长、处长、科长，同时还是儿子、老公、爸爸……你把所有的角色都‘演’好了，才算是一个优秀的人、成功的人。所以，对不起，我不能选择你。”<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; 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min-height: 1em; border-bottom-width: 2px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); display: inline-block;">结     语</section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">三则故事，分别从不同的视角，诠释着感恩、能力、人品在全面评判一个人时所占的分量。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">领导特别是高层领导，能够拥有令人羡慕的地位，能够取得来之不易的成就，能够头顶万般荣耀的光环，绝大多数都是凭借难以想象的意志和智慧，从“千军万马”中拼杀出来的。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他们能够在激烈角逐、层层选拔中不被淘汰、脱颖而出、越走越高，主要在于他们精通为人处世之道，深谙选人用人之理。<p style="max-width: 100%; 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text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不管你在体制内还是体制外工作，请牢记上述三则故事的深刻教训。<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">要想深得上级赏识，就必须注重全面发展，真正使自己成为一个德才兼备的人，配得上领导推荐、经得起实践检验，让领导放心、让大家满意、让自己成功！<p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 14px; font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">主创：有故事的河</div>

爱学习的阳阳妈 发表于 2017-8-7 16:26:54

他们教育我知识、教会我如何与别人相处，让我形成个人认为比较正确的三观。学生时代的我，总结就一句话，成绩偏下，早恋被抓。记得是升学考在即，早恋被班任老师发现，他不是一味的责骂、批评，而是用一种柔软的教育方式引导我，帮助我。最后不仅没有影响到我升学考，而且让我正确认识到自己的错误，在青春叛逆期没有跑偏。我想，是那一次的经历，让我明白了处理矛盾，要注意方式方法。

三毛新疆0991 发表于 2020-7-13 20:10:12

我们每一名党员干部都应该去感恩

酷狼发表于 2021-4-5 10:12:38

在青春叛逆期没有跑偏。我想，是那一次的经历，让我明白了处理矛盾，要注意方式方法。

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老秘网_材夜思范文's Archiver

我的成长感恩谁