一年级入学家长会讲座稿
<p align="center" style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-align: center;"><b><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 32.5px; font-size: 16pt; font-family: 宋体;">一年级入学家长会讲座稿</span></b></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">尊敬的各位家长</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">:</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">大家好</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">!</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; text-indent: 42pt; font-size: 14pt;"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; text-indent: 42pt; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">在我与众多家长交往的过程中</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; text-indent: 42pt; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; text-indent: 42pt; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">我感觉到许多家长给孩子身体上的营养过剩了，制造了不少的“小胖子”；但是，我想说，在孩子成长过程中，精神上也是需要营养的，心灵是需要滋润的。所以，今天把大家请来，一起经受一次心灵的洗耳恭听礼，愿您与孩子一同成长。先让我们把手机关掉或者调成振动状态好吗？</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">面对这波澜壮阔的大海</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">我相信每个人的的心中都会产生敬畏之情：因为水是生命之源，上善若水，水利万物而不争。这一点不正像为人父母的我们吗？从孩子呱呱坠地到咿呀学语，从蹒跚学步到步入校门，一点一滴无不凝聚着父母的心血，寄托着家长的期待与厚望。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">今天您的孩子步入了小学的校门，开始了一个新的征程，也就是从现在起，您开始意识到有了压力，孩子也开始有了任务。看着孩子蹦跳着走进校园，真不知道该祝福他们还是可怜他们。也真不知道他们对学校的向往，对学习的热情能够持续多久。因为坐在一个教室里有很多的人，他们既是朋友又是竞争对手，用不了多久，就会泾渭分明。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">望子成龙，望女成凤是天下家长的共同心愿，我们既希望对孩子进行超前教育，让孩子赢在起跑线上，同时也希望孩子能拥有一个健康快乐的童年。教育的核心应该是先成人后成才，然后再成功。望子成龙没有错，但是没有做人这个基础，这个龙恐怕也飞不起来。只有培养孩子健康的人格，乐观的心态，他们才会拥有一个幸福的人生。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">从今天开始</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">您将与孩子一起开始了漫长的路程</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">无论是小学六年还是初中三年</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">高中三年</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">都将是一场艰苦卓绝的马拉松比赛</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">,</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">起点的领先并不意味着终点的胜利。请问：您准备好了吗？</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 68pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: -36pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">一、<span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: normal; font-size: 7pt; font-family: 'Times new roman';"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">教育孩子是家长义不容辞的责任。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">孩子进了学校不等于进了保险箱。在我见过的家长中大约有这个两类：一是把孩子全交给学校，我称之为“放任自流”型。“老师，孩子全交给你了，你就多费心了。”或者说：“老师你好好管我们孩子，我们根本管不了。”要知道，孩子是社会的，是学校的，更不容质疑的是家长您自己的。学校教育不能完全代替家庭教育。家庭是孩子的第一课堂，也是终身课堂，家长教育要跟上时代步伐，父母要重新学习，重塑自己。<b>第二类是大包大揽型</b>：什么都不放心，生怕孩子受半点委屈，比如送孩子上学，家长会背着书包，手里牵孩子，送到校门口还不放心，恨不得把孩子抱到座位上。还有的家长，怕孩子写作业累着，替孩子撒谎，说孩子病了，更有甚者家长替孩子写作业等等，这样的孩子缺乏自理能力，衣来伸手、饭来张口，更可怕的是您教会了孩子说谎，教会了孩子不完成作业，孩子身上出现的不完美，错误不在孩子而在家长。</span></p><pre style="white-space: normal; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); line-height: 20.833332061767578px; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">美国一位心理学家为了研究母亲对人一生的影响，在全美选出</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">50</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">位成功人士和</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">50</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">名有犯罪记录的人，分别给他们去信，请他们谈谈母亲对他们的影响。其中有两封信谈的都是一件事：分苹果。</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;"></span></pre><pre style="white-space: normal; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); line-height: 20.833332061767578px; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">一封信是一个来自监狱的犯人写的：小时候，有一天妈妈拿来几个苹果，大小不同，我非常想要那个又红又大的苹果。不料，弟弟抢先说出了我想说的话。妈妈听了，瞪了他一眼，责备他说：</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">“</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">好孩子要学会把好东西让给别人，不能总想着自己</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">”</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">。于是，我灵机一动，立即说：</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">“</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">妈妈我想要那个最小的，把最大的留给弟弟吧。</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">”</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">妈妈听了非常高兴，把那个又红又大的苹果奖励给了我。从此，我学会了说谎。</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;"></span></pre><pre style="white-space: normal; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); line-height: 20.833332061767578px; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">另一封信是一位来自白宫的著名人士写的：小时候，有一天妈妈拿出几个苹果，大小不同。我和弟弟们都争着要大的。妈妈把那个最红最大的苹果举在手中，对我们说：</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">“</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">这个苹果最红最大最好吃，谁都想得到它。很好！那么，让我们来做个比赛，我把门前的草坪分成三块，你们一人一块，负责修剪好，谁干得最快最好，谁就有权利得到它。</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">”</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">我们三人比赛除草，结果，我赢得了那个最大的苹果。我非常感谢母亲，她让我明白了一个最简单也最重要的道理：通过自己的劳动去获得自己想要的东西。</span></pre><pre style="white-space: normal; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); line-height: 20.833332061767578px; text-indent: 35pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">这个故事确实让人扼腕叹息，仔细思索，余味无穷。母亲是孩子的第一任老师，你可以教他说第一句谎言，也可以教他做一个诚实的永远努力争第一的人。所以，作为为人父母的我们，一定要谨言慎行！</span></pre><pre style="white-space: normal; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); line-height: 20.833332061767578px; text-indent: 35pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">在孩子的成长过程中，父母是孩子永远的老师，无须持证就能上岗，而且永不下岗。一个好父母，胜过十个好老师，我们不怕碰不到好老师，就怕碰不到好父母！</span></pre><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 68pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: -36pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">二、<span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: normal; font-size: 7pt; font-family: 'Times new roman';"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">如何教育孩子？几点建议。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">每个家长都希望自己的孩子人见人爱，出类拔萃。做为家长的我们又该如何去做呢？</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 7.05pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 21pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">安徒生的父亲：穷鞋匠培养出大作家</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 7.05pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 21pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">丹麦童话作家安徒生出生在富恩岛上一个叫奥塞登的小城镇上，那里有不少贵族和地主，而安徒生的父亲只是个穷鞋匠，母亲是个洗衣妇。贵族地主们怕降低了自己的身份，从不让自己的孩子和安徒生一起玩。安徒生的父亲对此非常气愤，但一点也没有在孩子面前表露，反而十分轻松地对安徒生说：</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">“</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">孩子，别人不跟你玩，爸爸来陪你玩吧！</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">”</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">父亲亲自把安徒生简陋的房间布置得像一个小博物馆，墙上挂了许多图画和做装饰用的瓷器，橱窗柜上摆了一些玩具，书架上放满了书籍和歌谱，就是在门玻璃上，也画了一幅风景画。父亲还常给安徒生讲《一千零一夜》等古代阿拉伯的故事，有时则给他念一段丹麦喜剧作家荷尔堡的剧本，或者英国莎士比亚的戏剧本。</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;"><br> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">为了丰富安徒生的精神世界，父亲还鼓励安徒生到街头去看埋头工作的手艺人、弯腰曲背的老乞丐、坐着马车横冲直撞的贵族等人的生活，这些经历为安徒生以后写出《卖火柴的小女孩》、《丑小鸭》等童话故事打下了很好的基础。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28.1pt;"><b><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">杰出的父母并一定要有多高的学历，而在于他们懂得用自己的行动来教育孩子。</span></b></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 68pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: -36pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">1、<span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: normal; font-size: 7pt; font-family: 'Times new roman';"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">提高自身素质。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">案例：老师在讲《圆明园的毁灭》时，讲到圆明园是谁烧的，发现一名男学生趴在桌子上睡觉，老师就将他叫起来问：你说圆明园是谁烧的，男孩带着哭声回答：不是我烧的。老师十分生气就让学生站在教室外面，这个学生就掏出手机给他的父亲打电话，说老师不让上课，父亲问为什么，学生就给父亲讲了情况，父亲就告诉儿子说，圆明园多少钱我们陪他就是了。可悲啊，父亲还以为圆明园是他们家的私人花园呢；可笑啊，即使你拥有上亿资产，也不足以买下圆明园的一角！</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">身教重于言传。孩子是家长的一面镜子，从孩子身上能够折射出家长的影子：一个优秀孩子的背后一定有一个和睦、上进的家庭。作为家长如果希望您的孩子优秀，那么从现在开始努力把自己打造成优秀的人物！因为你时刻都是孩子学习的榜样。要孩子爱读书，作为家长就要嗜书如命，让书成为生活中的主角，这就是父母的言传身教！在孩子面前自觉过一种有品味、高质量的生活，因为家长的榜样是无声的教育。“狼”所培养出来的孩子只能是“狼孩子”，千万不要指望“狼父母”能养出好孩子。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">（故事）有一个孩子的父母对孩子的爷爷奶奶非常不好，因为人上了年纪，总是把碗打碎。所以父母就做了两个木头碗，当然碗里时常放着馊掉的饭菜。这一切，都被年幼的孩子看在眼里，记在心上。多年后，孩子的爷爷奶奶去世了，父母将木头碗扔了出去。可是没过多久就被孩子给捡了回来。父母不解的问：这个破碗还捡回来干什么呀？孩子回答：以后给你们吃饭用，因为你们就是用这个给爷爷奶奶吃饭的呀！记住：父母永远是孩子效仿的对象。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 68pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: -36pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">2、<span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: normal; font-size: 7pt; font-family: 'Times new roman';"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">营造良好的环境。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">这个环境一方面指的是舒适的物质条件，更重要的是指一种家庭氛围：宽松、民主、和谐、上进。试想：整天在麻将声中长大的孩子会是什么样的呢？作为父母张口闭口不是五饼就是九条，赢了举杯欢庆，闹个通宵；输了夫妻吵架拌嘴，甚至反目成愁。这样家庭中长大的孩子心理能健康吗？我们来看一名学生写的《打麻将的妈妈》片断：</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">“三万、八条</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">……</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">妈妈又在打麻将了。此时的我已无心再做作业了，一股无名的恨从我胸中升起。我恨，恨她，恨这个爱打麻将的妈妈。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">妈妈为了打麻将，竟然不顾我的学习了！一次测验，我得了个满分。我满心欢喜地把试卷带回了家，想让妈妈也高兴高兴。但当我把试卷递给妈妈时，妈妈竟然不屑一顾地说：“考及格就行了，不要费那么力气去考满分。考及格妈妈同样高兴。”说着顺手递给我一张</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">10</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">元钞票说：“这是我昨天打麻将赢的，给你做个奖赏吧。”我气愤得把钱撕成两半，伤心地哭了</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">……”</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体; color: red;">老人搓麻将成瘾，死在麻将桌上。殡葬时儿子写了篇悼词：老爸，昨天你两眼还像二饼，今天就成了二条<span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">,</span>不知东南西北风哪个么鸡把您害了！您的追悼会开得很隆重，清一色尽是您的麻友，大家排成一条龙与您告别，每人给您献上一杠上花。您一生都想发财结果仍是白板，今到火葬场，您终于糊了！</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 28pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">真的很担心在麻将声中长大的孩子明天会怎样，</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">所以环境对于孩子来说至关重要。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 68pt; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: -36pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">3、<span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: normal; font-size: 7pt; font-family: 'Times new roman';"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">讲究教育方法。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">（</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">1</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">）夫妻合力。经常因为爸爸批评孩子，妈妈觉得心里受治，于是夫妻二人当着孩子的面吵了起来。结果呢，爸爸索性不管，久而久之，妈妈的“独角”效应成了孩子不尊重爸爸的理由，爸爸的威信也会随之旁落。因此，作为父母，要相互尊重，维护好对方在孩子心目中的形象，即使你认为对方做得再不对，也要冷静，要避开孩子两个人进行沟通。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">（</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">2</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">）家校合力。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">家长不管不问是极不负责任的表现；“工作忙”不是理由；“我不会做”也不能成为你冠冕堂皇的借口。老师有老师的责任，老师不能全部代替家长。良好的教育应该是家校一体，形成合力。比如老师在学校教育孩子要互相宽容，小朋友之间有了磨擦要容忍，同样的事情，孩子回家一说，有的家长就会火冒三丈，认为自己的孩子受了委屈，告诉孩子：明天谁再惹你，你就往死里揍他。更有甚者，家长直接到班里兴师问罪，甚至对别的孩子大打出手。这种极端的行为，最终导致的是孩子孤立无援，甚至性格孤僻，因为谁还敢和您那娇宝宝玩呀，大家惹不起躲得起，会对他敬而远之。所以，朋友们，孩子在学校里不管发生了什么事，一定要通过学校去解决，拳头不是解决问题的唯一武器。重视孩子的教育，要和老师勤于沟通，多做换位思考，多一些理解，多一些包容，事情就会呈现出不同的结局。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">（</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">3</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">）好习惯早养成。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">一年级很重要：因为在这个阶段孩子要完成很多的转变，比如从幼儿园的小朋友变成小学生，这是人生的第一个转变；从一个无拘无束的孩子突然变成一个学校里要守纪律的小学生了，这又是一个转变；原来冬天冷了可以不去幼儿园现在要克服困难坚持到校，这又是一个转变。这期间需要的是爸爸妈妈的耐心。人生最重要的是养成好习惯，而这些习惯都是一年级养成的。好习惯的养成，只要我们具体告诉他们怎么做就可以了，比如坐有坐相，站有站相，吃有吃相，写有写相。（自己孩子举例：放学第一件事是写作业，把书包收拾好后，才可以出去玩儿。从来不辅导孩子，培养孩子上课认真听讲的习惯。）有人说一个行为坚持</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">21</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">天就成了习惯，在培养孩子的习惯上父母还是要有点耐心的。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">(4)</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">因材施教。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">举个简单的例子：夏天到了，你怕孩子上火想让他多喝水，有什么方法呢？一，你可以强制他喝；也可以用话哄他，教育他，告诉他不喝水会上火，上火了会生病，生病了要打针吃药；二，你可以在水中加上果汁、冰糖，改变水的味道；要我说最简单也最为有效的办法是你在菜里稍微多放点盐，这样他口渴了自然就会去喝水。方法不同，效果也就不同。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">你在重复黄金床的故事吗？很早以前有一个皇帝过寿，邻国的皇帝给他送了一个特别金贵的黄金床，这个皇帝很亲民，希望老百姓跟他共同享受这个黄金床，于是征集</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">100</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">个人睡这个黄金床。这</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">100</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">个人有的人跟皇帝是一样的，可以感受黄金床的舒适。但是有的人比皇帝高，皇帝为了让他</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">“</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">合体地</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">”</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">享受黄金床，于是把他的脚剁掉；有的人比黄金床短，就把这个人拉长，与床同长，皇帝认为只有充分合体，才会感受舒适。听起来是匪夷所思的事情，现在却有</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">N</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">多家长是在</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">“</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">践行</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">”</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">这样的不可理喻。事实上，每个孩子都在打造自己的黄金床。你希望自己的孩子打造怎样的黄金床？</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">由于时间不长，水平有限，所讲内容难免以偏盖全或挂一漏万，更谈不到精深。只希望能够引发家长朋友们一点点的思考，带给您一点点的变化，我也就心满意足了。最后衷心祝愿每个父母都能培养出一个优秀的孩子，为自己，为社会！</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;"> 郭淑岚</span></p><p align="center" style="margin-bottom: 5px; border: 0px; list-style: none; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 20.833332061767578px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; text-align: center; text-indent: 31.5pt;"><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;"> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr> <wbr></span> <span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">２０１</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">4</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">．</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">8</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 宋体;">．</span><span style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 27.499998092651367px; font-size: 14pt;">30</span></p><p></p> 开家长会突然感觉自己没话说，今天来看看这方面的资料，学习学习。
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