说话的艺术
<span style="background-color: white;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; font-size: 20px;"><b><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">1.说话不要高声 <wbr></font></b></font><span style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"></span></span><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 农村里因为天地开阔，噪音大，影响声音的传播，所以农村人说话，声音一般较高。城里人的生活环境与农村不同,说话的声音一般较低。</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 如果,现在你居住在城市里生活，那么,说话不要用太高的声音，不然会被人说成是“乡巴佬”，虽然不是骂你,但对你的形象却有很大影响。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">2.语速不要太快 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 语速太快，一是别人听不明白；再就是听上去象吵架一样，给人一种爱吵架的印象；语速快了，会影响自已的思路。所以不要语速太快。语速慢下来的好处是，听起来有磁性，而且显得比较深沉。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">3.不要抢话</font><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 别人正在说话，你突然打断别人自己说，是不尊重别人。你不尊重别人，人家会尊重你吗？</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 正确的做法，是在别人说话的时候，辅以“接下来呢？”“后来呢？”“怪不得。”“原来如此”等诸如此类的语气词，让别人感觉你在认真地听他说，而且他说的很有意思。只有这样，别人才会对你有好感。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">4.尽量不要先说话 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 这是特指开会、讨论问题的时候。你如果放到后面发言，已经听到了大家各抒己见的观点，取长补短，再加上自己的观点，给人的印象一定是：这个人不简单。</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 如果你是必须先说话的人，要学会抛砖引玉，现在就要留心看看领导和会议主持人是怎么开场的，你就会逐步学会先说话了。总之，尽量不要先说话。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">5.要耐心等待别人说完</font><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 无论别人说得如何没有道理，无论别人的观点如何刺耳，无论你的见解多么高明，你都要耐心的等待别人说完。</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 一是基于礼貌，二是你没有听完别人的话，怎么能够知道别人说得没有道理呢？三是别人说些刺耳的话，也许正是为了激怒你呢，你一抢话，正好上了人家的当。四是你以为你的见解高明，别人却会不以为然，因此，你要耐心的等待别人说完，这和不抢话是一个道理。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">6.不要指手画脚 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 有的人说话爱带手势，这无可厚非，但手势只能偶尔为之。说话带手势与说话时指手画脚不同，如果说话时指手画脚，与说话带手势，就失之毫厘缪之万里了。指手画脚是最没教养的。为了防止指手画脚，说话时不妨不带手势。不带手势，不会对你的谈吐造成影响。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153);"> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal;">7.不要急头怪脑 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: 'Microsoft YaHei', 'Helvetica Neue', SimSun; line-height: 20.833332061767578px;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 29.999998092651367px; font-size: 20px;"><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 有的人听到别人的观点与自己不一样，或者别人的话是指责自己，立即就表现出急头怪脑的样子，好像跟人家恼了一样，这是最是让人家看不起的。别人的观点与自己不一样，这有什么可恼的呢？</b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); 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