与上司善处要则
<p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●当你认为上司对你不公平时，千万不要去跟上司讲理，你看那个“理”的左边是个啥字，理永远在上司的那一边。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●到上司那里去打同事的小报告，其直接恶果有二：其一，上司一定会从心里把你当成小人看；其二，他将从此一直担心你以同样的方式向他的上司打他的小报告。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●一次没把工作做好，下一次还可弥补；得罪上司一次，可能永远改变不了上司对你的看法，尤其他（她）对你的偏见。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●上司高兴的时候，你可以顺着上司的话茬，做重复性的附和；上司发怒的时候，你千万要闭嘴。如果骂的正好是你，你除了恭敬、虔诚地接受，任何辩解都是愚蠢的。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●上司想喝水，你可以给他（她）沏好茶；上司的烟灰缸满了，你可以马上给他（她）倒掉；上司不在有人打听他的行踪，你除了说不知道，什么也不能说。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●可以替上司对他的父母尽孝心，对他的孩子献爱心，而对他的妻子和女朋友，什么心都不能有。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●上司在办公室开着门跟人大声讲话时，你千万不要去关门，上司的话一定是想让更多的人听到；上司关住门打电话时，你有多大的事也不能去敲门，因为上司一定有什么重要而隐秘的事在处理；上司独自一人在办公室发呆时，你千万不要去问他正在想什么，因为上司很讨厌人们知道他的心事。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●上司在会上强调了劳动纪律之后，你千万不要以此为据就去要求上司。如果你发现上司某一天也违反了什么劳动纪律，你只能有一理由解释：那是上司工作的需要。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●上司喝不了的酒，你可以替喝；上司不愿接的电话，你可以替接；上司说不来的话，你绝对不可替说。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●给上司审阅的报告，万万不可写得太完美，哪怕故意造俩错别字，给上司创造一个修改、斧正的机会。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●上司不想见的人来了，你要会挡驾；上司被不想见的人围住了，你要会救驾；上司既要同不想见的人见面，又不能被他们纠缠，你要会护驾。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●不要跟上司点破他弱点，你若斗胆那么做了，那你就快倒霉了。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●对付上司的杀手锏是抓住他（她）的把柄，但你一有这个念头，就已不能与他（她）善处了，并且已失去了善处的意义。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●当上司表扬你的时候，你一定要表示：自己的表现距上司的要求距离还很远；当上司批评你的时候，你该告诫自己：眼下的这一切正表明了自己的差距。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;">●不要跟上司阐述自己的什么理论，如果想阐述，就把上司的实绩及思想总结成理论。</span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p><p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span></span></p>**** Hidden Message *****<p style="min-height: 1.5em; word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; line-height: 24px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 宋体; font-size: 16px;"><span style="line-height: 25px; font-size: 17px;"></span></p><p></p>
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