跟贾陆英老师学《论语》为政篇第九章 2014年2月18日
<div align="left"><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 22.5pt;"><font color="#ff0000"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">贾陆英老师的《论语问答录》因欢度“两节”暂停了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">50</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">多天。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">2</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">18</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">日下午</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">3</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">30</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">至</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">5</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">00</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">，贾陆英老师继续在老秘网“重温经典读书会”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">QQ</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">群</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">49231471</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">组织大家共同学习探讨</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">《论语》为政篇第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">9</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">章。这堂课堪称“火爆”，粗粗算了下大约有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">20</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">位网友参与了讨论，直至贾老师喊下课，大家还意犹未尽，讨论持续到近</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma;">6</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体;">点钟。老猫这两天外出办事，现刚回到家，抓紧认真补课并将聊天记录稍作整理，奉献给未能在线参与的朋友们。</span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">各位网友大家好，今天下午，我们共同学习讨论《论语》为政篇第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">9</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">章。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">2·9</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">子曰：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">吾与回言，终日不违如愚。退而省其私，亦足以发，回也不愚。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">回：姓颜名回，字渊，孔门十哲之一，长于德行。不违：不提出不同意见和问题。退而省其私：考察他与其他学生私下讨论学问时的言论。发：发挥、引申。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔子说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我与颜回谈话，他整天都不提不同意见和问题，好像是很愚笨。等他退下去之后，我考察他私下的言论，发现他也能对我讲的有所发挥，颜回其实并不愚笨呀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">!"<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">问：从孔子对颜回的评论中，可以看出孔子喜欢什么样的学生？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="text-indent: 18pt;"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">答：孔子不满意那种</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">终日不违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，提不出不同意见和问题的人，而欣赏那种</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">足以发</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，能够对他讲的内容有所发挥的人。孔子也曾称赞子贡</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">告诸往而知来者</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">（《论语</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">·</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">学而》），他要求学生在学习中要主动思考，善于发问，举一反三。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">贾老师，孔子这番论断是不是还有另外一层意思，颜回当着夫子的面，不提出自己的意见和想法，是因为尊重夫子。然而，其他不理解颜回的人，却认为颜回愚蠢。孔夫子的意思是聪明的人不一定要急于表明自己的态度和立场，不一定要急于在人前表明自己的才智。所以看人不应该看表面，要观其言，察其行，全面考察，仔细分析。我觉得夫子这段文字不仅是对治学的要求，也是对观人的一种方法。在夫子的三千门徒中，夫子最欣赏的就是颜回。回，不仅有大仁，而且有大智</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">铂金</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">1984</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">按右岸的说法，好像是夫子对自己的一种表扬，会不是颜回思路反应慢，总是要慢慢回味才能有所感触。大智不代表林场反应力强啊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">睡虫西麦：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">夫子不但人前考察，也人后考察，足见夫子考察人之深度。不被他人前的表现迷惑，而深入到其他地方去了解，这才是一位好领导好老师啊，颜回还可能是不太善于和领导老师交流，更喜欢平等化，也可能当面时，颜回反应迟钝，回去反刍后才知老师所讲之精华。但我还有个想法。恐对夫子不敬，足以发，能够对他讲的内容有所发挥的人。夫子喜欢的就是足以发，所以即使有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，也么用的。颜回是因</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">足以发</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">而受到夫子钟爱</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">颜回当着夫子的面，不提出自己的意见和想法，是因为尊重夫子。然而，其他不理解颜回的人，却认为颜回愚蠢。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">是的，所以孔子做了这个说明。总的来说，孔子教化学生，非常重视调动他们主动思考的精神，要求学生能</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">举一反三</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">告诸往而知来者</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">赐也</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">!</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">始可与言诗已矣</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，正是孔子对子贡能举一反三、告往知来的赞赏和鼓励。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">浙江：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔子反对假假、大、空之类的夸夸其谈，主张人民修身进德，增长学问，应该在实际行动上踏实努力。这与为政篇第十三章</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">先行，其言而后从之</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">意义相近</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">我本善良：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">聪明的人不急于发表自己的意见，善于倾听也是很了不起的。足以发要分场合</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">铂金</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">1984</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">可是这些和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">为政</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">有什么关系呢？看来这个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">为政</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">之法，不能完全照搬，有些领导就是不喜欢你有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，美其名曰，抓执行。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">为政就是需要回的这种态度。能提出问题的，必定是认真听讲且仔细思考了的学生，而认真听讲且仔细思考了的学习未必能提出问题。领导有几个喜欢有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">的下属，便是唐太宗李世民重用魏征前，也是生生发过好几次脾气的。其实，若是当着领导的面不表明自己的意见和看法，却在私底下议论的下属更危险。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">石子云：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">如果作为领导，有人与你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，就不安逸了，后果很严重的，就是要喜欢有人与你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，有为你深</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">思</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，才能聚智聚力抓发展。思考了，能搞创新、能解难题，思维决定思路、思路决定出路</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">流畅：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">只有思考了，才能提出问题啊，不敢问，很多情况是担心自己问的质量不够高。当着领导的面不表明自己的意见和看法，却在私底下议论的下属最常见</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔子不喜欢不善于提问的学生。又对他们退而省其私。学而不思，就是死啃书本。孟子说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">尽信书，则不如无书。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">（《孟子</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">·</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">尽心下》</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">）不动脑筋死读书，读死书，缺乏智慧的思想，就会迷茫受骗，学的再多也没有用。思而不学，就是不读书却在那里苦思冥想。孔子说：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">吾尝终日不食</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">终夜不寝</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">以思</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">无益</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">不如学也。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”(</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">《论语</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">·</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">卫灵公》</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">不学习，没有知识的积累，就会缺乏信心，疑惑重重，甚至误入迷途，那也是很危险的。孔子既指出学而不思的不足，也指出思而不学的弊病，主张把学习和思考结合起来。任何人，要想学有所获，学有所成，都必须注重学思结合。<br></span></p><p></p><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">海蓝：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">不逆，不违，不顺，这也许是回的做人哲学吧。发现问题是能力，解决问题是本事。违，恰恰是自己对某事的独到见解！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">学问学问，既要学又要问。学与问是相辅相成的，只有在学中问，在问中学，才能求得真知。我们从小养成了勤学好问的习惯，就好比插上了两只强健有力的翅膀。到那时，知识的天空将任你翱翔，宇宙的奥秘将任你探求，你将真正成为学习的主人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">有教养的头脑的第一个标志就是善于提问。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">普列汉诺夫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">铂金</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">1984</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">颜回是不是，只学不问。但怕一发不可收拾</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">我本善良：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">能提出问题比解决问题还重要。敏于观察，善于思考，方能成大器。领导心情好的时候，足以发是可以的，哈哈</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">睡虫西麦：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">作为领导，要好好地观察你的部下。作为部下，即使你在谈话时提出了不同的意见，但是到了底下，你还是要执行，最好是发扬光大领导的思想。这样你才能被领导认同和看重。对于下属来说，违不违不是关键，关键在于足以发</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">小风飕飕地：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">贾老，如何培养善于提问的头脑呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">很多时候并不是真违，而是试探！何为问得巧</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">何为问得笨呢？像我这样问些不好回答的问题，算是问得巧还是问得笨呢？怎样算是发得巧，如何发算发得准？学以致用，要用就要找到抓手，我想要了解的正是正是这个抓手是什么！可否举例说明，什么时机发，算发的巧呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">小小的确幸</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">!</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">那领导喜欢那样的下属呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔夫子有一个著名典故，入太庙每事问。陶行知说：发明千千万</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">起点是一问。禽兽不如人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">过在不会问。智者问得巧</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">愚者问得笨。人力胜天工</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">,</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">只在每事问。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> —— </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">陶行知</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">嗯，足以发要有底气，要有实践的经验，而不是拍着脑筋，坐在家中乱发。做工作不是搞科研，有些必须实事求是。要发得巧，发得准，发得有效果</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">海蓝：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">包拯违，流芳百世。这个情节引发了不少做人，治学，处事的讨论</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">睡虫西麦：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违而不足以发，打入冷宫。违而足以发，英明领导最看重。不违而足以发，执行力如此之强，当然可担当首席执行官了。要看领导了。领导是夫子，怎么问，夫子都不会为难你。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">铂金</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">1984</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">所以，还是要注意，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">对象、情景</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">等写文章的基本要素。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">足以发要分场合</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我赞同这个观点。孔子讲的是教学。为政，也要分场合。要发得巧，发得准，发得有效果</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">赞同。发得巧，要看时机；发得准，要善于思考。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">我本善良：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">一个单位的领导轻易不要足以发，一个单位的职工更不要轻易足以发，以免话多有失，引火烧身。天时地利人和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">睡虫西麦：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">特级教师在上面上课时，说有不同意见请现场交流。哇哦，特级教师额，好不容易可以对话，我问了句，中国这么推崇西洋音乐，小学就欣赏那么多外国乐曲，请问，外国的孩子也在学习中国音乐吗？他们是什么时候接触中国的《二泉映月》《小放牛》呢？结果呢？还是一个特级教师，说有什么不同意见吗？我又举手了。结果把老师的交流流程给打断了。可是我一点都没跑题啊。所以，绝对不是违不违的问题，绝对是领导专家师者的个人问题。问，得看领导啊。那就不要假惺惺地问，有什么要问的吗，有什么不同意见吗，一个认真的学生，当然是你要我问，我才问的。夫子在发问的时候，是希望有学生能</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">，但是现在很多领导之类的在发问的时候其实是不希望有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">的。我醒悟得太迟了，我以为他们都是真的不耻下问，或真的会诲人不倦。同样的问，在这个领导前是巧，在那个领导前是笨。所以还要因人而</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">违</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">” </span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">。那个音乐特级教师就是这么回答我的。然后我写了长长的一篇关于中小学音乐教育的思考发给他，然后，就没有然后了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我觉得老师授课的时候，不要轻易打断。打断的时候，也要看时机，否则打断了老师的思路可不妙。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">可否举例说明，什么时机发，算发的巧呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">没有固定答案，全凭自己善于应对。我觉得老师授课的时候，不要轻易打断。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">对。我们这里，则欢迎大家各抒己见，多多提问。这就是场合不同。自己看书，也要善于提出问题，做点眉批，才有助于学深学透。有句名言：好问的人，只做了五分种的愚人；耻于发问的人，终身为愚人。学习这一章。重点是要明白勤学好问的道理。这是纲，其余都是目。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">小风飕飕地：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">右岸，西麦启发了我，何为问得巧，依目的而定，不因个人想要了解什么而定！如果想取悦某人，就问些他熟悉的问题，如果想难为某人，就问他所不熟悉的问题，活着反复诘问！所为巧，说白了，能够达到目的，既为巧；相反，不能达到目的甚至与目的相违背的问，即为笨！看来发问亦不可盲目，发问前也要做足功课呀！西麦严重了，其实就刚刚讲的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">吾与回言，终日不违如愚。退而省其私，亦足以发，回也不愚。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">亦可用于老师！每个人的知识都是有局限性的，即是知识很全面，从</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">存储器</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">处理器</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">再到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">播放器</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">也需要时间，仓促发问，谁很难每次都给出满意的答案，纵使过后能够给出令人满意的答案，也不失为好老师！师者</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">传道授业解惑者</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">”</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">也，做到上述几点，并不需以时间为标准！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">你的依目的而问，只是针对一部分特定对象，比如领导，比如专家，比如接受媒体采访的公众人物或者政界要人。我觉得在课堂上，还是应该就不理解的提出问题，要不失去了发问的意义。我只想到如何去取悦某人或者打击某人，最后我什么都没有学到。老师所言极是。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">石子云：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">贾老师，关于思，儒家有没有更为详细的讲解。<br></span></p><p></p><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">睡虫西麦：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">勤学好问，最好也是私下。万一问得不巧，免老师人前丢脸。问得巧么，也留个勤学好问的印象。说实话，我也喜欢这样的老师。小风，我前面两个例子都是老师在台上发问，然后我应起的反面案例</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">流畅：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">勤学好问的道理，大家打小就懂，可惜付诸实践太难。感谢老师提醒！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔子喜欢在学习中主动思考，善于发问，举一反三的学生。这对我们是很有启发的。在读书时自问自答，把心得用眉批写在旁边，也是很好的方法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">夕惕若：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">贾老这个方法，晚生一直坚持的。我的做法是，看书的时候，圈点，眉批，然后再把圈划，批注的东西誊抄下来，誊抄的过程也是复习的过程。君子好为人师，颜回提问，孔老夫子未必不高兴</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">睡虫西麦：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">这个方法在小学教学中，叫批注学习法。说到这个发问。我还想起一件，上面老师讲完以后，自由交流，下面有老师提问的。老师都回答了。然后我心痒痒，也发问了，老师说时间到了。旁边的老师笑话我，人家那是内定的，是托。。。。。。。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">铂金</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">1984</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">这个很耗时吧，完全可以借助电子产品，实现圈划，批注时，自动帮你归集起来。我现在是，电子书经常下载了看，纸质书也经常买了看。反正自己的时间也不是像盖茨一样，那么值钱。读点无用之书，也没坏处的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">小风飕飕地：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">小夕同学方法不错，可否上传一二页，让我们有个直观的印象！可惜现实中能做到的不多，我也是近两年才学会运用的！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我觉得思考问题的角度也要多样化，思考的问题最好能够对实践有所指导和帮助，不能天马行空的乱问</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">流畅：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我舍不得在书上写字，看来还没学会看书呢</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><img width="24" height="24" src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/msohtml1/01/clip_image001.gif" v:shapes="_x0000_i1025"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">比如红楼梦一书中，有人考证过，其中的菜谱和药膳都不是胡编的，在生活中可以实际运用的。估计人家在研究红学时，考虑到了这个问题，方才考证的。古往今来，治学的精神就是立论和驳论，在立与驳之间寻求真理。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">贾陆英：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">多学，缜思，善问，才能学得好。这几点是互补的。批注学习法也要足以发，不要把足以发局限了。今天的讨论很热烈，也很有益。就到这里吧，再见。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><img width="24" height="24" src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/msohtml1/01/clip_image002.gif" v:shapes="_x0000_i1026"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">夫子大爱颜回。先秦</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">·</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔子《论语</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">·</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">雍也》：子曰：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">贤哉！回也。一箪食，一瓢饮，在陋巷。人不堪其忧，回也不改其乐。贤哉！回也。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">” <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">夕惕若：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">刚开始的时候，我读书贪多，觉得要多读、快读，后来发觉这样效果不好，浅读十本，不如精读一本。个人觉得，能在某一领域青史留名的作品，耗作者几十年之功的一部皇皇巨著，值得我们仔细研读。如果为了写公文，单纯的只看公文范例意义也不大吧。这里有个矛盾，不读怎么知道有用没用</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">——</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">要是读完没用我读他干嘛。我也觉得，不能一门心思想着有用才去读</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">5</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">号台风：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">问题是你怎么确定哪一本要精读？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">小风飕飕地：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">当前，社会处于转型时期，政治结构、经济结构乃至社会结构，正在发生巨大而且深刻的变化，变化就难免碰撞，碰撞就容易引发矛盾。个人感觉，有触动、有启发的即可精读！没有触动、感觉不到启发，即使精读也未必有好的效果！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">5</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">号台风：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">小手凉凉的说的很好，术业有专攻，好书未必于你都有用。诺贝尔文学奖我基本读不动。如果是事务性公文，足够了，有经验了可以凭经验刷掉一批。学习写公文就是功利性的，洗三观的则不要功利</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">在路上：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">读书不能有功利性</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">5</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">号台风：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">那是消磨时间的。从某个角度说，也还是功利的。不要把自己的时间看的那么重要。把读书神圣化也不好。世事洞明皆学问人情练达即文章</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">小风飕飕地：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">孔子曾说过一句话，大致的意思是：有些人自发学习，有些人要用才学习，有些人要用也不学习，原话怎么说来着！右岸先帮忙解决问题！孔子曰：生而知之者上也，学而知之者次也；困而学之，又其次也；困而不学，民斯为下矣！这句的官方解释跟我的理解有点出入！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">湖北</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">/love</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">右岸：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我觉得一个国家谁在写书，写什么样的书，决定了这个国家的未来，重点在于引导，传统不能掘弃，精神不能倒塌，曾经的亲身经历：一者问我，怏怏中国，有武汉这个地方么？莫不是你虚构出来的。另一者问我，中文也算专业么？中文有什么好学的，我们从小到大不都在学习中文么？闻后哑然，不知道是世界颠覆了我，还是我误会了世界。此二例虽是意外，但足以证明文盲仍然存在，不是文字盲，而是文化盲。古代学堂自小教授的就是《三字经》，而后是《百家姓》《弟子规》《大学》，三字经就是一部集人文、历史、自然、地理等百科为一体的书籍，现在的成人熟背《三字经》的有几人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);">此生不换：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: rgb(0, 110, 254);"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">总觉得右岸很多时候话说的很经典，很能说到人的心坎上。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">“</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">我觉得一个国家谁在写书，写什么样的书，决定了这个国家的未来</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;">"</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;">这句话俺是非常认同</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Tahoma; color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;"><br></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: 宋体; color: black;"><br></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><font size="5" color="#ff0000"> 温馨提示：今后贾陆英老师拟于每周二、四下午3：30分开始继续“重温经典读书会”QQ群49231471为大家讲解《论语》，为提高互动交流质量，请申请入群的朋友先在老秘网原创投稿一篇，然后再联系老猫加入。在本贴作精彩回复者也可直接申请加入。</font></span></p></div> 发现右岸的话最多，隔几行就能见到。猫前辈辛苦了…… 贾老师的讲解和群友的互动，让人很受启发！ 本帖最后由 小风飕飕地 于 2014-2-20 09:52 编辑右岸参与热情高，发言表现好，值得老秘网所有同仁学习，建议老猫给右岸口头表扬一次！ 大家参与的热情果然很高啊。 下班后看了讲座，讲得很好，发言很积极！！！有机会一起参与 好好学习，不断增强业务技能的主动性和自觉性；处处学习，继续拓宽自己的思维和视野。 非常赞同右岸的观点：“这段文字是对观人的一种方法。回，不仅有大仁，而且有大智”。 知行合一，知而不行是态度问题，行而不知是能力问题 学习方式是因人而异的，但是当学习成为一种生活习惯时，一定是有所收益的。
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